How to please your woman?
It is very easy for Muslim husband to please his wife. If every person looks at his wife in a state of view or mind that his wife is not less than a hoor of Jannah there will be no jealousy, hate, desire of revenge or longing or at the same time if women see her husband in a state of mind that he is the mijazi khuda of her’s and she will do her best to please him in order to draw near to God it will enhance husband-wife love and husband and wife relationship.
Women in this world as like a hoor al ayn
On the other hand, in order to draw close to God, we should do such things which please God rather than that we always do such things with great pleasure which is not our business but we don’t do those things which are our duty.We put all our energy to the unimportant or useless discussion.we are much more forward from Satan in all evil spirit. we only love ourselves and don’t care about anyone else even from Quran sharif we take out those parts of ayat that make ourselves satisfy. we misinterpret or misrepresent those ayath and use as a weapon e.g mans always says that 4 marriages are Sunnah in Islam and man can have for wives at one time but we don’t want to know in which context Allah reveals this Ayyat we don’t want to know that marriage is a solemn responsibility it is contract between 2 people Allah says in Quran:
Many Muslims always take unfair advantages from the law of polygamous relationship. They don’t follow Sunnah other than this because it pleases them if they really want to follow sunnah they should marry orphan or prostitute girls.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54:
Allah says: “O My servants who have transgressed against their souls, do not despair of Allah’s mercy, for Allah forgives all sins. It is He Who is the Forgiving, the Merciful. Reference2
Din Islam provides us the glorious holy Quran that is very wast there is no subject in the world which is not present in Quran(Koran) we should not take out the little part of any verse and ignore the main part. This verse clear that if Allah forgives them for their sins by their true repentance than who are we to reject we should also accept them as a wife.